Something I have been really noticing a lot lately is how few people actually take action and follow through when it comes to creating their own opportunities. One of the most common excuses people have is that they "don't have time...."
Personally, I think that's a load of crap.
This is especially bad when it comes to students (but it applies to everyone!). Now I know I'll probably offend some people by saying this, but students (again, not just students) are notoriously bad for mismanaging their time. I understand the workload that goes in to being a student. After all, it wasn't too long ago that I was a student and totally guilty of this myself.
When people say pull the "I don't have time" card (boo-hoo), what they're really saying is "I don't use my time wisely" or either "I choose not to make time because this isn't important enough to me." There are very few people that actually would admit the latter. Tons of people talk about wanting to get more gigs, but very few honestly put forth the effort of actually doing something about.
So for those of you interested in ever making money as a musician, which is it?
A true lack of time (don't care enough to make time) or are you just not using it wisely?
It's an important distinction to make.
One last thing that I think a lot of people have trouble with when it comes to actually comes to taking action is fear. Now, I am by no means psychologist, but I do know from personal experience that one of the biggest things for me to overcome was my fear of putting myself out there. It took me months to start this blog, and it took me over a year to legitimately start a group. I still have trouble with it almost every time I go to make a new post that I know will probably (definitely) be criticized by some of my colleagues. I can't tell you how many emails of mine have probably been deleted and just blatantly ignored when I'm trying to drum up some work for my group.
But when it comes down to it, these fears of rejection and failure are really pretty silly. I have to say that I made it way more difficult for myself than it actually was and I have a good hunch that it's pretty universal. Imagining the worst-case scenario makes these fears seem pretty petty. The worst that could possibly happen is not all that bad. There are millions of people that won't be able to eat or drink fresh water today in the world, and yet I'm sitting in my bedroom worrying that people won't want hire my brass quintet. I think we could all agree that being rejected and failing are not actually a big deal.
I've been harping on this for weeks now, but I really hope that some of folks out there start taking action and acting on your ideas. It's really a been a tremendous learning process for me and I know that it has offered valuable lessons to everyone else I know that regularly puts themselves out there. Don't keep putting it off until "eventually". That's bullshit and you know it. There are people that go their entire lives putting things off and their whole lives go by and they never took a risk.
It's not that bad, I promise.
What's holding you back from something you want to do?